Friday, September 10, 2010

Farrah takes mom to counsling

Farrah starts the show with meeting with her attorney for the case with her mom and finds out. That he has gotten a letter from Debra's attorney for the case. To say that she has paid her fine , done her community service project and has completed counseling. And that now she and Sofia are now safe to see her. nd they in his eyes both seem to have a stubborn streak and in order for things to simmer and get better they both need to work together and they both need to give and take a little more than they have in past for baby Sofia's sake if she wishes for her daughter to have a relationship with her grandparents.  

      Even though Farrah clearly  has lost the trust she used to be able to have with her mom. And she feels like her  mom just checked all the things off the check list to get to her baby and  just to see Sofia. And since she has started counsling of her own she decides for sofias sake that maybe she does need to give her mom a chance and try to patch things up with grandma Debra.

       Even though Farrah and Debra have gone though a lot she sees a need for Sofia's sake to try and work things out with her so she calls  her mom.  And Farrah asks Debra to come with her to counseling so that  the counselor can help them work things out.Debra comes to counseling. And the counselor asks them both what they would both like to see happen ? Deba says that she and farrah used to be like best friends and that all she would like to see is for her daughter Farrah to be happy. Farrah says she is trying very hard to get back to a place were she is "happy " .

       A few days later Farrah and her mom Debra meet for coffee after taking advice from both the counselor and the attorney for her side of the case and she and her mom talk about how she likes living on her own and they talk about potty training for Sofia. Debra tells her also that she and Micheal would really like to watch Sofia more now. And Farrah she plans to take them up on there offer and she said that only after she saw the way Debra and the way Sofia and her were interacting and singing the itsy bitsy spider she said that maybe both the counselor and her attorney were right and maybe they are doing the right thing  .  

      And if i had advice to give Farrah after what Debra did to both Sofia and Farrah i know if it was me i would still be cautious even though she was my mom and also say that Debra still has a lot of work ahead of her and that the trust that was lost  i think still needs regaining Debra going for coffee with her and going to counseling in no way still makes up for what she did and she still has trust she needs to regain with her i would still do as her attorney advised for them to do as to have some one else present for a long while and for her to stay with Sofia for a while when she is visiting grandma Debra because there still is the issue of regaining of trust to re build with her daughter Farrah  and grand daughter Sofia.
        That she her self needs to work on not that Debra needs to have a continuous punishment for what she did but just so Farrah can re gain the trust she lost with her in Debra doing what she did i think a lot more activities like the coffee shop should continue to happen before Farrah should leave her daughter Sofia alone with Debra and Micheal too not that Micheal couldn't be left alone with her i am just saying feel free as always to tell me what you think i would love to hear from you

next up on my agenda for the blog is Maci,Kyle and Ryan and the arrangements for more time in all the right places so be looking forward to that one .   

Thursday, September 9, 2010

It's Amber's birthday

happy birthday to amber she has been feeling down since she failed her practice test  for the GED but  once awake this morning she is hoping  it will be a better day because its her birthday. Gary and Leah make mommy breakfast of pancakes and apples. Gary asks Amber what she wants to do for her birthday she says  " to go dancing with the chica's " and have some girl time. Gary agrees and says Ok  well then i will watch Leah so that you can do that then  .

        Gary doesn't even attempt to spend a lot of time with Amber for her birthday though  but Gary and Leah do go shopping for a girft for mom Amber and Leah picks out her mom a teddy bear Gary then runs errands while she gets ready for her night out with the girls and takes his friend along for the ride for errands and then decides that he would like to go to Amber tells him no its her night off and she is going out with her girls he then tells her to find a babysitter then she says no gary that was not the deal you told me you were gonna watch Leah and they get into yet another fight a few phone calls later amber accidently hangs up on him with her cell phone which pisses off Gary and she tells her friends see he is trying to ruin my birthday plans cause now he wants me to find a baby sitter because he wants to go with her when that wasnt the plan from the get go trying to get there support and they are left sitting and waiting on Gary

And she tells him to once again come and get your shit once again but once he shows up he brings her a birthday cake which i don't even think they took the time to eat because Amber had made plans to go out with the girls and that is just want she intended to do they kiss and make up and she says to the girls lets go out and off to partying she goes to a under age club to hang with the girls Hope Amber had a great birthday even though her fighting with Gary wasn't her  highest moment she seemed over it pretty fast once he showed up though  feel free to tell me what you think i would love to hear from you  

next up on my agenda for tomorrows blog is Farrah and Debra and counseling and all Farrah went though this week on teen mom season 2

she is up next come back tomorrow

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Maci contimplates moving to nashville to be with Kyle

Kyle and Maci in Nashville saying good bye
Maci and Kyle have now been seeing each other for a few months now.  And as we all know she has been traveling a lot to Nashville a lot  to see her new beau Kyle quite a bit. Kyle wants to be close to her and has given her the idea for her to move closer to him.So as to not have to keep traveling so much back and fourth so much he wants her to come and stay there. Were he is at as well as a lot of her friends from high school who moved that way to go to school too .
  Maci and Kyle start off the show riding dirt bikes which is something that they both share in common and both seem to have a lot of fun doing together. Maci to me sees quite unsure as she is about moving to Nashville so she talks to some friends from back home from  her community college about what they think. And even checks with the community college to see what it would take she has only been in the community college for 3 semesters and didn't do so well the first 2 but did fine the last semester they tell her she could move and transfer and there shouldn't be any issue moving to Nashville has some things to defiantly consider.
      Yes she will get to be with Kyle a lot more she will be closer to all her friends from high school but she will be two hours from Ryan her own family's support and not only Ryan but his support and his family as well and Maci talks to Kyle about her moving there as well he asks if she has told her parents yet since that seems to be

       Something on Kyles mind and she tells him No but she says she thinks it just might be a possibly for her anyway. she also to me doesn't seem to considered with what Ryan or his family might think about what she is doing she also says she never sees her self away from Kyle and thinking she is in this one for sure in for the long haul i dont really know that the  timing is all right for her to leave not only her own family but Ryan's too even though they are no longer together and they both have seemed to have moved on  What he might think might need to be something she considers lets all not forget to tell me what you all think cause i would love to hear from you thanks